• Workplace Politics

    From Aaron Thomas@1:229/426 to All on Thursday, September 24, 2020 00:29:54
    I know we usually stick to national/international politics, but where do we all fit in when it comes to workplace politics?

    On my previous job, I worked with a team of butt kissers in the security department. We had butt-kisers like me, sergeants, commanders, and a chief. Except I wasn't actually a butt-kiser; I was simply a guy who got hired,
    who was expected to kiss butt, but I never puckered-up.

    Making a long story short, my lack of butt-kissery didn't get me far. I was never high ranking, commended, or appreciated for anything more than showing up, despite some of my heroic deeds as a butt kiss in a suit.

    Should I have been more 'butt-kissin' with my superiors? No. They can kiss mine instead.

    Why do people go that route? Why do people kiss butt on the job? Or at least, why do people kiss but on low wage jobs? Workplace politics are disgusting. All honest employees deserve equal respect. I even saw a dude give a shoulder massage in his suckery. They promoted him quickly.

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  • From Nick Andre@1:229/426 to Aaron Thomas on Thursday, September 24, 2020 09:53:44
    On 24 Sep 20 00:29, Aaron Thomas said the following to All:

    On my previous job, I worked with a team of butt kissers in the security department. We had butt-kisers like me, sergeants, commanders, and a chief. Except I wasn't actually a butt-kiser; I was simply a guy who got hired, who was expected to kiss butt, but I never puckered-up.

    Never EVER kiss ass at work. Its pretty simple, just be humble and do the best job you can and your good results will often speak for itself. Ass-kissers may get promoted before you but you can sleep at night knowing you aren't one.

    If on the other hand its a company-wide jerkfest or kissfest then you are likely better off working somewhere else. Same with "workplace drama".

    Nick

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  • From Aaron Thomas@1:229/426 to Nick Andre on Thursday, September 24, 2020 10:44:53
    Never EVER kiss ass at work. Its pretty simple, just be humble and do the b job you can and your good results will often speak for itself. Ass-kissers get promoted before you but you can sleep at night knowing you aren't one.

    My boss was getting his ass kicked in the mens' washroom one day. I pulled the attacker off him, and then I did the same for a customer who was invovled
    in the same brawl. When it was all over, my boss pretended like it never happened. He's an Iraq war veteran and that incident was a threat to his reputation.

    How is it possible for an Iraqi war veteran to be such a terrible fighter? I'm an overweight computer nerd, with few fighting experiences, and I rescued 2 people like it was nothing. I didn't even break a sweat. I'll assume that sometimes these war veterans come home & get lazy, and they're no longer doing their push-ups.

    But regarding butt-kissing, there are certain jobs where it becomes necessary, because coworkers will do anything they can to keep a person down if he/she doesn't suck up like the rest. They use it as an opportunity to attack. "Hey boss, non butt-kisser forgot his badge."

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  • From Don Lowery@1:340/1000 to Aaron Thomas on Wednesday, September 23, 2020 22:22:40
    Why do people go that route? Why do people kiss butt on the job? Or at least, why do people kiss but on low wage jobs? Workplace politics are

    I've worked in retail the past several years & still have had the same job
    2.5 years. The last part is VERY important. Anyway...last week I was called into the manager's office for the 1st time and had a "discussion" about my "attitude". Add to that...he was concerned I was not a "team player".

    In terms of kissing brown...I've had "customers" (less than human beings) who have no problem screaming at the top of their lungs how much of an a**hole I
    am if I don't/won't assume the position. This is the 1st time anything the managers have said anything at all to me...with never having been written up about anything. Rarely ever call off sick...except if I am death's door.

    At the other one...the "team" player remark come from another employee in another department who refuses to look for anyone else to help move whatever
    it might be. I get busy & tell her...I'm not a "team" player. Maybe I
    should've asked her if she wanted to install shower rails on my arse to help her have an even better method to help herself.

    disgusting. All honest employees deserve equal respect. I even saw a
    dude give a shoulder massage in his suckery. They promoted him quickly.

    I ended up applying for/getting an overnight position stocking the shelves...which means no dealing with jerks...sorry customers or needing to bend over to make other employees look good. People think this is a bad move for me...but at least it keeps me out of prison by not hurting someone who deserves it. I can go into work...do my job with my music playing & go home. F*** everyone else & their feelings of getting in the way of the employees/managers not making big enough of a bonus to take care of their mistresses.

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  • From Aaron Thomas@1:229/426 to Don Lowery on Friday, October 09, 2020 10:03:20
    I ended up applying for/getting an overnight position stocking the shelves...which means no dealing with jerks...sorry customers or needing to

    That's excellent. I work better with less supervision too. I realized this several years ago while working at a Walmart warehouse. I was working with a back injury that happened on the job, and Walmart was very reluctant to pay my hospital bill, but I was still on the job & not crying about the pain.

    But then I reached my boiling point when I needed to piss and the boss told me "We've only got 45 minutes left to work - just wait until we're done." That was my last day on that job, and my last day ever working under close supervision again.

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  • From Lee Lofaso@2:221/360 to Aaron Thomas on Saturday, October 10, 2020 00:17:39
    Hello Aaron,

    I ended up applying for/getting an overnight position stocking the >DL>shelves...which means no dealing with jerks...sorry customers or needing
    to

    That's excellent. I work better with less supervision too. I realized this
    several years ago while working at a Walmart warehouse. I was working with
    a back injury that happened on the job, and Walmart was very reluctant to
    pay my hospital bill, but I was still on the job & not crying about the
    pain.

    But then I reached my boiling point when I needed to piss and the boss told
    me "We've only got 45 minutes left to work - just wait until we're done." That was my last day on that job, and my last day ever working under close supervision again.

    You missed your chance. Bigly. Had it been me, I woulda pissed
    and crapped all over him. Literally. Then left him to clean up the
    mess.

    --Lee

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  • From Don Lowery@1:340/1000 to Aaron Thomas on Friday, October 09, 2020 11:10:43
    I ended up applying for/getting an overnight position stocking the shelves...which means no dealing with jerks...sorry customers or needi
    That's excellent. I work better with less supervision too. I realized
    this several years ago while working at a Walmart warehouse. I was

    Just got the offer letter this morning. Have a 19 cent raise with a regular schedule all the time. No dealing with jerks & rotating schedules. When the only bad thing I see is working overnight...I can deal with it & am excited
    by the change.

    In terms of Walmart...did a temp job there many years ago for a week. Strange company to work for with a pep rally to start out your day.

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  • From Aaron Thomas@1:229/426 to Don Lowery on Saturday, October 10, 2020 11:43:06
    Just got the offer letter this morning. Have a 19 cent raise with a regular schedule all the time. No dealing with jerks & rotating schedules. When the only bad thing I see is working overnight...I can deal with it & am excited by the change.

    Way to go! That sounds good. Working overnight has perks, and especially if there's limited prickery.

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  • From Don Lowery@1:340/1000 to Aaron Thomas on Sunday, October 11, 2020 00:17:05
    schedule all the time. No dealing with jerks & rotating schedules. Whe only bad thing I see is working overnight...I can deal with it & am ex by the change.
    Way to go! That sounds good. Working overnight has perks, and especially if there's limited prickery.

    None at all...since from what I understand...will be working by myself in the future. No prickery at all & just gotta make sure I shut off the phone during the day. Window already has a gray blanket over it...so will be dark.

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